Monday, 31 August 2015

If you really love her, you'll be patient with her.

She’s not always that sweet, cute and loving girl that loves to tease you, play with you, kiss you and do those cute stuff with you. She’s not always that nice girl who gives you that warm smile and loves to play with your hair and tickle your stomach because sometimes or should I say, most times, she can be that really annoying girl who will test your patience. She can be an irritating, thick-headed girl who loves to run in circles and give you mixed signals that’ll surely freak you out and leave you staring in blue.

She’ll get on our last nerve, and dealing with her is not that easy. Her unpredictability can be a very big problem knowing that she’s not that easy to read and thinking of what you will do with her when she is in that state is like solving a very complex puzzle and a senior maze all combined. She wants you to chase after her and just as you are nearing catching her, she runs faster, but if you don’t, she’ll get mad. She’ll push you away for one second, and pull you back the next. Trust me, she can be a real pain in the ass.

But then again, if you really love her, you will be patient with her. In the beginning, you already know that she isn’t the easiest girl to put up with. That said, you should already know that she’s unpredictable and that once in a while, this behaviour will possess her, and that when this happens, you should know what to do already. Because she’s your girl. She’s the best thing that’s has ever happened you, even when sometimes you feel she’s wicked, and weird, and annoying, and all that crap. She’s the extension of yourself so you know her that well.

If she’s mad, and she’s provoking you, then you should know how to calm yourself down because if you also let anger eat you, you’ll just fight and that won’t do you any good. If she’s sad, you should already know the right timing for everything. You know when to crack a joke, when the right time to be serious is, and when to just sit down with her, hold her and just listen. She can be annoying and irritating sometimes, but at the end of the day, she can also be that sweet, caring, submissive and loving girl.


You just can’t love her sweet side, because if you really love her, you’ll also love her rough part. You’ll be patient with her. And the same absolutely applies to you ladies. Be patient with your man. If he truly loves you, he'll always want the best for you, will do whatever it takes to make and keep you happy, and will never anything to mess that up.

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