When we get girlfriends, there's just so much we need. It's not always about sex. So my sisters, being a girlfriend isn't just about being beautiful and attractive for your guy. It's not just letting him chase you, letting him do sweet things every time you are mad at him and not just receiving flowers and gifts on your anniversaries!
Being a girlfriend isn't just about doing those girly things just to get his attention and not just about feeling mighty every time he did everything you wanted.
Being a girlfriend is also being caring and loving. It's being an emotional(a friend of mine told me it's not so good) but yeah, it's being emotional partner where you support him in every opportunity that he takes. You remind him of the things he must do and those he must not do.
Just because you know you can keep him on your feet doesn't mean you manipulate him. You need to understand him not as just as your partner, but also as an individual. You help him in any way possible showing him that in a relationship, there's no 'I' or 'You'. There's only 'We' and 'us'.
You know that a man has his own ego and even when it becomes a little irritating and annoying sometimes, you still understand that it's a part of his nature.
A girlfriend isn't just a term. It also has responsibilities that every girl must know.
YOU ARE A FRIEND, A SISTER, A SECOND MOM, AND A BEST FRIEND.
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