Ladies, here's why you shouldn't fight your mother-in-law.

Ladies fight for very many things. They fight for big things like other ladies who try to steal their man, and for things as small as the remote to watch their favourite soap opera. Some ladies like single mothers fight every day for meaningful things like making ends meet and trying to put food on the table for her children and trust me, that's no easy fight. But, there is something I think ladies should never fight  for. We see them fighting for it every single day, all the time, even when very few of them win this fight.
In case you are wondering what that fight could be, here we go. Many ladies out there fight relentlessly every day with their mothers-in-law to win the man's love or favour, or whatever they call it. This fight may be with their mothers-in-law as I mentioned earlier, or with their husbands. All I keep asking myself is why?? I need someone out there to help me understand why. But, I'm here to make you ladies understand why you should never fight for that, and the reason is quite simple. It's almost impossible to win, if not totally impossible. The conflict often arises from an assumption that each is criticising or undermining the other woman, and the rivalry is so ingrained that it doesn't matter how lovely your mother-in-law is.
You see ladies, any sound man in good terms with his mother can never love you more than he loves his mother(or grandma for some people like me). There are a couple of reasons for that but lemme try to break it down for you. First things first, she's his first love. Unconditional love. And they say the first cut is the deepest. It's not the kind of love you have for him because he's gonna pay the bills at home, make sure you look good and all the other reasons that act as a basis for your love. No. She loved him way before he got that nice body you fell for, when he was still looking like a potato(not me tho, lol).

Your husband's mother loved her son way before  he learnt to speak, before he grew that voice that drives you crazy everytime he says those sweet nothings to you, even before you bought your first push-up bra. In addition to that, she loved him even before he grew that big long D you get to ride every night(not that his mom would enjoy it, God forbid!). She groomed him into the loving and caring man you fell in love for, she made him learn that sometimes you have to apologise to your woman even when you've done nothing totally wrong.
So you think he's gonna throw all that away just for a gorgeous lady he's just met a couple of years or worse, months ago?? Wake up from that dream. A man's love towards his mother is unrivaled, you can't fight and take it away. So please don't compete for all I know, love begins and ends with she, who brings us into this world. A mother.