This is life

When you are in a difficult situation, a problem, a maze where you just can't find away out, don't be so hard on yourself. Don't feel ashamed or shy(don't these mean the same??) to ask for help. Don't let it elevate into something worse. Think of it this way;
Ever wonder why it's so easy to offer advice to people in sticky situations, but when you are in a difficult situation, the answers aren't as clear? Like you can't give yourself the same advice you'd give to someone else? That's because when someone else comes to you with a problem, they are in a maze and lost, while you have a bird's eye view from above and can easily see where they need to go to get out of the maze. Look at it just as you may be watching soccer and a player passes the ball to the opponent. You, the spectator are the right place to see how well-positioned his team-mate was and shout how he'd have passed it to him.

However, when you're in the maze(problem), all you see are barriers. You just can't find a way out. This is when you need help, an outside perspective to help you turn the right way. when you finally get it, keep in mind that they can only tell you which way to go, but not force your legs into walking that direction. Whether to walk that way or not is entirely in your direction.
This is life. People will screw you over. You'll fight with your family, you'll witness things that will change you forever. You'll blame new lovers for things old lovers did.We've seen many people failing to move o, or finding it hard to fall again because they thing what people did to them in previous relationships may resurface through their new lovers. You'll lose best friends you thought would always be there. Maybe they also thought they'd be there but along the way, things changed, they just found out they couldn't put up with what you'd become, or the reverse. You come to realise that everyone has a past; the past of which they aren't really proud of because it's full of things that made their life seem dark, things they've tried to hide to hide at the back of their memories and wouldn't really like to bring them back.

You'll cry, I mean at a certain point in our lives, we all do. You'll laugh, I mean however sad your life is, you'll always find something to laugh about. And then you'll embarrass yourself. We always do stupid and silly things that may embarrass us. This is life. But then, you'll find your very own perfect moment where none of that matters, where you can sit back and realise that crap happens to the people who can handle it and that this is who you are, a human being that gets emotional, sad, happy or moody sometimes. You'll realise that good days comes and go, and long nights end. The sun shines like it's gonna fall down to earth, and that rain falls tomorrow you may think the floods are upon us again. Everything changes, this is life, but thus is your life, and so no one, absolutely no one should change you, but if you're to change, let the choice be yours, and yours alone.